“It’s a Shame to See So Many Entertainers Struggle When It Can Be SO EASY to Attract Upscale Clientele and Make More Money WITHOUT Spending Another Minute Fooling With Those Annoying Time-Wasters…”
I Know the Secrets, and I’M TELLING!!
. Congratulations on creating such a treasure, and presenting a very complex subject in such an easy to follow & non-threatening way.”
- Silvia, Owner of Lovings.com
Dear Savvy Adult Adventuress,
I’m Erin Ann Myer of myHoneysuckle, and I’m known for uncovering fun and easy methods to help you achieve more online escorting success.
Now, I’m finally ready to share the entire online escorting road map to follow to skyrocket your profits in today’s chaotic marketplace.
With US unemployment on the rise and the current recession with no end in sight, everyone is being affected.
About a decade ago I was also unemployed, down-and-out, and living in the SF Bay Area. This was right around the time of the dot-com-crash. Remember that thing? Well, I just so happened to decide to move out there right after it “crashed” (great timing, huh?) and couldn’t find a job to save my life.
My design and marketing resumes were going out in droves, but no one was biting. I couldn’t even get a nibble.
This went on for weeks and weeks until I completely dried up all the savings I had acquired before the move.
Around this time I began waking up, in the middle of the night, every night, horrified and stressed out. The fears my financial crisis had manifested prevented me from getting a full night’s rest. Instead of returning to sleep, I would get on my computer to send out more resumes.
All I could think about was, “How in the hell am I going to pay my rent next month in this big expensive city I just moved myself to?”
- Tiphany
“I Stumbled into the Adult Industry by Accident”
Scouring the Craiglist employment section for the 777th time, I came across a most interesting ad:
Wow – out of all of the failing online businesses out there, this one seemed to be rising like cream to the top. How in the heck were they pulling that off?
Little did I know then, but this company, The Eros Guide, had no worries during the ups and downs of the temporary Bay Area economic crisis.
Their niche had been around since… well, before written history, and it wasn’t going anywhere anytime soon.
I decided to send them my resume and portfolio with all the bells and whistles they had asked for.
There was something intriguing about a design in my portfolio that appealed to the owner of the EG, so I was granted an interview.
A few hours I left the sit-down, I was offered the job. And what a job it was!
- Audrey
Welcome to the World of Adult Entertainment
“You’re not in Kansas Anymore, Dorothy!”
Back then, and even still today, marketing your services online as an escort is a complex symphony that can suddenly turn into a confusing mess in record time.
The Eros Guide had the right idea branding their image to present an air of class, sophistication, and professionalism. It did all the right things to bring in the quality traffic that their advertisers craved.
However, when it came to the advertisers, there was a BIG missing piece no one was talking about.
Who was to consult you on how to maximum your ad? I mean, it’s great that they knew how to get the upscale men to their directory, but who’s helping you out and telling you how to get those men to notice you?
Your ad is swimming in a sea of thousands of other ads.
“What Do You Do?”
For the next half a decade I spent most of my waking life inside of an escort ad. If you could have become one by starring at it for too long, I would have.
I probably built, updated, and touched hundreds of thousands of escort directory ads during my Eros stint.
In addition to doing my regular design and production job there, I was also given the extra bonus of training all the new design employees. That meant I had to understand even the smallest detail regarding your ad. I was expected to train people how to build them, so obviously I needed to understand them better than anyone else.
It also gave me a lot of invaluable practice teaching, so there are no regrets about carrying that extra weight.
During this time I studied everything I could when it came to escort advertising. I compared our site to other directories, became a master at detecting fake photos, but most importantly, I started comparing the ads to one another.
… And, what I found was nothing short of riveting!
One of the things that popped out at me right away was the vast difference in the look and feel of a VIP’s ad verses the ad of a common entertainer.
The thing that always struck me as odd was that half of the time the VIP wouldn’t be able to hold a flame to the natural good looks of the common escort, yet the VIP was always able to ask for a MUCH higher hourly rate.
… And, from the looks of her expensive photography and designer lingerie… she was getting it!
“What Was Her Secret?”
I discovered the reason the VIP was able to charge a much higher fee for her time wasn’t because she was born with some magical VIP gene. It was simply because she understood how to successfully market her services as a luxury to the rich.
Through these advanced marketing techniques she was able to create an air of aristocracy in comparison to the other “commonplace” entertainers.
“Why Don’t All Entertainers Use These Techniques?”
Look, if you’re not currently advertising as a VIP, I don’t blame you. It’s not your fault, really. How are you really supposed to find out these types of secret techniques, anyway? It’s not like there are classes you can enroll in.
Even the VIPs that use them don’t really even know what they are doing exactly… they’re just doing it!
“Here’s Something I Discovered…”
There is absolutely a secret way to market yourself to affluent men. What’s more, is that anyone can learn these secrets, apply them, and become a VIP, too.
I have spent the last decade of my life feverishly researching, testing, and tracking what online methods work best when attracting wealthy gents.
Regardless of your situation, there are subtle, but CRITICAL differences between how wealthy men make their buying decisions and how men-on-a-budget make their buying decisions.
These are differences that can mean you losing or gaining massively more upscale potentials.
Now you might be thinking “But most men are on a budget, aren’t they? So wouldn’t it make sense for my ad to appeal to the budget men? That way everyone can afford me.”
The honest answer is no.
This is true across the board…
If you are advertising on Eros Guide, Lovings, CityVibe, Open Adult Directory, BackPage.com, The Erotic Review, myHoneyGirls, Escorts.com, or Craigslist, then the majority of the traffic being exposed to your ad is wealthy affluent men.
So, what the means is, when you advertise common escort prices, you not only repel the wealthy men, but you repel the majority of visitors on the directory.
It’s true.
Affluent men like the finer things in life. If you are advertising your services for budget prices that any guy can afford, the affluent gentleman will pass you over, and keep looking for something more suited to his financial bracket.
The simple fact is, if you are using the internet to advertise your escorting services, your target audience should be affluent gentlemen between the ages of 35 and 50. They are the majority who are looking to spend time with you.
If that isn’t your market, then you are loosing out on big money.
“There is Help”
An intensive program that Shows You EXACTLY What to Do (and What to Say) to Reach the Affluent Market.
Lucrative Entertainer…
Now, more than ever, there’s much more to marketing and communicating to WEALTHY PATRONS than meets the eye. And it pains me to see so many entertainers make simple mistakes that are deadly to their profits. With that in mind, I’ve created this comprehensive resource using the latest findings in marketing your services online. It’s called *Escort Aristocracy: Your Guide to Going VIP*
I launched it in November of 2008. And what you’ll learn from this material will dramatically evolve your escorting career ON THE SPOT. Soon you’ll be tapping into things you never even considered.
I don’t like to brag, but I am one of the top paid consultants in our industry. That must mean I’m doing something right. Not to toot my own horn, but I do know a thing or two. And, one thing I know, for certain, is this…
The Escorting Game Is About To Change.
And, that’s exactly what I want to give you… a complete GAME plan.
Actually, better than a game-plan, I want to give you a full-blown PROGRAM… my program… for making more money using effective marketing tailored to your needs.
When I initially started putting all this information together I assumed I would eventually fashion it into a “book” so that is what I previously called it.
Today, however, calling “Escort Aristocracy” a book is a major understatement. A more accurate way of describing it is as a “reference source” or a “program”.
This mean it is not designed to be read in one sitting with a strong cup of your favorite brew.
Frankly, unless you are a speed reader you will need several pots to get through it, in its entirety!!!
- Chella
Here is What is Included in the
Escort Aristocracy Program…
Escort Aristocracy is a comprehensive program that’s made up of:
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5 Unique Training Modules (see descriptions below) |
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130 page Training Manual |
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40 page Accompanying Work Book (some of the modules contain exercises to complete) |
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Invitation to join my Inner Circle where you get on-going learning and support with your fellow participants |
Let me tell you more about the modules…
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Module 1 The most important thing in your business is you, so naturally we’ll want to start there. After we do a quick audit, we’ll move on to learning a great technique to upgrade, add-to, or completely change your current stage name. Afterwards we’ll ask some important questions about privacy involving revealing your identity, steps to assuring great reviews, getting clear about your career goals, and then complete a fun day-dreaming exercise about your perfect day. Rounding out this section, we’ll go over some easy ways to prevent burn-out, and take the full load off of you. |
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Part 1: Auditing Your Business
A worksheet is included to help you make a “to-do” list like you’ve never seen before. After you complete this section you will have your entire week mapped out. Part 2: The Phonological Loop: The Secret to Creating an Truly Unforgettable Stage Name Ever wonder why some entertainers’ names stay with you forever, while others slip your mind instantly? This concept takes the guess-work out of choosing a stage name. You can use this tool to create an unforgettable new stage name or to simply upgrade your current name. Part 3: Should you blur your face or not? What you need to know before making the decision to unveil your visual identity in the industry.
Weigh all the future factors given here before you decide yes or no choice. Part 4: 4 Steps to Great Reviews If it is your goal to be a star on the escort review boards, then use these four easy steps to walk yourself into that position. Part 5: Getting Clear This questionnaire will encourage you to dive even deeper into your career to figure out what your real motivations are, your future goals, and the current obstacles preventing you from getting where you want to go. It will assist you to examine which advertisement venues have worked for you in the past and which ones have not. A worksheet is included with this section. Part 6: Your Ideal Day A list of detailed instructions and a worksheet will guide you to find your deepest motivations, desires, and help jump-start you towards that desired outcome. Part 7: Preventing Burnout How to introduce daily relaxation into your schedule, and the importance of taking a routine vacation. A guide and short worksheet will assist you in figuring out 3 simple things you can do, everyday, to prevent weekly burnout. Part 8: Consider a Personal Assistant
Finding a good PA as an escort, can be a daunting task, but using these techniques it make things a bit easier. |
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Module 2 The next section takes into the mind of your ideal client. We’ll discuss ways to get so in touch with your client that you know what he wants even better than he does. Digging deeper, we’ll tune in to his most hidden secrets, fears, desires, and use them to help build attraction. Next, we’ll delve into how to build a steady stream of regulars, while dropping all those time-wasting hagglers. |
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Part 1: Get Inside His Head This exercise is going to get you so in touch with your ideal client, that you will know what he wants, even better than he does.
An accompanying worksheet and full instructions lead you to discover, and understand, the inner-workings of your ideal patron, during this two part process. Part 2: The Deep Interview Now that you understand your client on a much deeper level, it’s time to use your new information in order to create deep attaction. This exercise will assist you to understand how to speak to your client, with your services, in a way that appeals to the very core of his desires. Once you have discovered your ideal client’s deepest fears, wants, hopes, and aspirations, you will then be able to readjust your services and offerings to be what he was already looking for. Part 3: Attaining More Regulars Using 7 Easy Steps If you’ve been wondering how to transition from a position of juggling multiple clients to a position of only seeing a small number of loyal customers, then use these 7 steps to adopt the following:
Plus many other tips… Part 4: Cutting the fat When it comes to escorting, our time can easily be eaten away by handling client email and phone messages/calls. Use these techniques to avoid time-wasters of all varieties. Learn:
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Module 3 By far, the biggest section in the program, covering your photos, your copy, your website, your mailing list, and your advertisements. We’ll go over photographry techniques that work for creating intrigue, build on our copy writing skills, review the best website practices, learn about the best sites to advertise on, and learn about the most important online escorting tool there is: your mailing list. |
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Part 1: Your Photos Start attracting the right kind of client before you start attracting the wrong one. The fastest way to draw in your dream patron is to use smart photography techniques reflected in your professional photos. Discover…
Part 2: Your Copy There is a huge difference between good text that gives your info and great text that pre-qualifies and sells the client. Learn how to make the most our of your ad real estate with:
Part 3: Your Website When it comes to escort websites, there are some key things to keep in mind, such as:
Part 4: Your Mailing List Without a mailing list you are at the mercy of the review boards, the forums, your ads, your search engine ranking, the economy, the political climate, the weather, and the strange whims of men.
Part 5: Your Advertisements Directories, review boards, forums, and other ad venues aren’t just for advertising. They can also be used to drive immense amounts of quality traffic to your website.
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Module 4 Real ways to make more money per session by enticing your clients to book longer appointments, as well as a super simple way to start saving money for emergencies. Also included is a list of financial planners that cater their services to adult entertainers. The biggest take-away from this section is the information on paying taxes — what every entertainer shoud know. |
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Part 1: The Rate Decoy Raising your rates doesn’t have to be a stressful and confusing ordeal. In under 15 minutes you can:
Part 2: Saving For Your Future Putting aside a small percentage from each appointment will add up fast, and the best part is you won’t even notice it’s gone. I give you some easy instructions on how to set up a high interest checking account online. Part 3: Paying Taxes Tax evasion is a very real and very serious crime. The facts about paying taxes are given here, along with information on exactly how to file.
Part 4: Financial management Most of us would like to believe we can keep our own books. We think this saves us money and allows us to keep a close eye on our expenses. Being in control of your money has a lot of appeal. However, in the long run, a bookkeeper or accountant can do a heck of a lot more than just keep up with your finances. They can become a consultant on when you should make key purchases.
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Module 5 Insider tips on how to screen effectively without wasting your time. Street-smarts on keeping yourself safe from abusive clients, and advice to give your driver. Also included is a long list of lawyers that cater their services to adult entertainers, a list of “self-acceptance” teachers and philosophers, and a list of support groups that you can reach out to. |
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Part 1: Screening The screening process you should be taking for your potential new clients is ever evolving. The most current, encouraged methods are given here. These screening tips take the guess work out of what you should be screening for. It also exposes you to an amazing tool that will track email for you, so you can see what your reader is up to.
Part 2: Better Safety A few excellent ways to keep yourself much safer:
Part 3: Legal & Support For an escort things can get can get rather complicated between managing your loved ones from finding out your career and your clients finding out your real name. Luckily there are ways to make sure this doesn’t happen… unless you want it to.
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Accompanying WorkBook To accompany the reading material, I have also created and included worksheets to help assist you with the exercises. In addition to the worksheets, I have also included some printable materials to help you out, such as recipe cards for your new clients. |
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Worksheets Include: Auditing Your Business Getting Clear Your Ideal Day Routine Vacation Getting Inside His Head pt 1 & 2 The Deep Interview Easier Screening Writing a Great Directory Ad The Tagline Formula The Rate Decoy The Seductive Squeeze The Seductive Letter prt 1 & 2 |
You’ll Also Get The Following Bonuses…
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Bonus Gift #1 Eros Guide Insider eBook As a free bonus, I am including this insider informational guide to getting the most out of your Eros dollars. After working there for a number of years, and giving so many advertisers advice on how to use the guide to their advantage, I got really tapped in to "what works" and best practices to use. I wrote it all down in a book and now I want to share this information with you. Even if you don’t use the Eros Guide to advertise, this book can still benefit you for your other directory ads. |
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This book inclues insider information such as…
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Hear what other entertainers who also enrolled have to say…
- Sophie Lee
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- Britney, Philly
- Amber Kat
) If what I am thinking is true, I just saved myself a lot of time and effort going straight to you, so thank you a bunch. I read the first two sections immediately and it’s just great. I can’t wait to do more.”
- C.M. of Sacramento
In “Escort Aristocracy”, you will discover:
- “A simple technique that can turn a run-of-the-mill escort name into an upscale and truly unforgettable stage name” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 8
- “The possibly horrible outcomes that could occur if you choose to use unblurred photos of your face in your escort advertisements (do you know how to prevent slip-ups?)” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 11
- “The sure-fire ways to getting, not good, but GREAT escort reviews” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 13
- “How to avoid the inevitable escorting “burnout” so that it doesn’t just become another j-o-b” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 19
- “The 14 tips you can give to your new "driver" to double your level of satisfaction with them while increasing the amount of safety they provide for you” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 118
- “How to get so in touch with your ideal client, that you know what he wants, even better than he does (he will think you can read his mind)” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 22
- “Figuring out what makes your ideal client tick and using that to your advantage by using it to create attraction” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 26
- How to attain more regulars in 7 easy steps (how many do you currently have?)
- “The secrets to reducing NCNS and how to handle (and avoid) HAGGLERS!” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 32
- “The 9 Essentials to Avoiding Time Wasters” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 34
- “The hidden benefits of hiring a professional escort photographer, and where to find ones that are specific to adult entertainers (don’t just hire anyone!)” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 39
- “The 4 deadly mistakes of bad escort photography (are you currently using a "mistake" photo on one of your escort ads?)” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 39
- “An amazing escort photography technique that literally compels a man to want to book a date with you. (The female celebrity who brings in the most sales when her face is put on the cover uses it, and now… so can you!)” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 43
- “How to create an irresistible thumbnail for your escort directory ads” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 50
- “The 3 steps to writing killer copy for your escort directory ad” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 53
- “The most over-used text phrases on escort ads that are instantly turning men off (is it possible you are using one on your ad right now?” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 61)
- “A 15 minute exercise to creating an interest-building tagline for your escort directory ads” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 64
- “What the most important marketing tool for an escort is and why, if you are not currently using it, it is like leaving half of your business on the table” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 84
- “Why SEO is a fluffed up buzzword that should be the least of your worries, and what you should actually be focused on instead, in order to bring quality traffic that leads to new business” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 82
- “Escort sites that you can advertise on, for free, that don’t suck” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 90
- “The 15 sites guaranteed to be worth your time (and money) to advertise on” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 89
- “An easy way to save for your future that will help you save money in such a way, that you won’t even realize any of it is gone” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 101
- “The real-serious-deal on escorting and taxes. Did you know the dangers of not filing?” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 102
- “How to file taxes as an escort entertainer the safe way” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 103
- “A list of financial planners who have experience helping escorts” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 105
- “Techniques to make your screening process easier and faster while maintaining its effectiveness” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 107
- “Great tips on making your escort incall much more secure” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 116
- “9 powerful ways to avoid abusive clients” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 117
- “A long list of lawyers who deal specifically with escorts, plus websites with tons of legal information for you” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 120
- “Tips for maintaining complete anonymity from your working persona” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 122
- “How to “create” a business you are comfortable talking about to your family, friends, and loved ones” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 124
- “Social acceptance for the escorting industry and warm, easy-going support groups for escorts” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 128
- “A secret formula you can use and in a matter of minutes have new rates that encourage more of your clients to book multi-hour sessions with you” – Escort Aristocracy Program, pg. 93
And so much more!
“Is this Program Right for You?”
I developed this program to help the newly independent entertainer, the lady ready to go VIP, the single mom, the struggling college student, the on-again-off-again worker, the scrappy go-getter, the romantic dreamer, the entrepreneurial business gal, the new girl on the block, the dancer turned companion, the elitist, the mature provider, the gal “ready to retire”, and the lady with a mission to make 2009 the year for BIG BUCKS to come from the good work she does.
If you are already 100% completely satisfied with the level of success you are currently experiencing in your escorting career, then this program is not for you.
Imagine how significantly this will impact your career, your business… your life.
If you aren’t already reaching the massive affluent male market, you’ll know exactly how to after you enroll in Escort Aristocracy.
As a female escort who wants to sell to upscale gents if you read the following statement, and apply it to your marketing, you’ll be way ahead of the game…
Marketing is about the full experience, not just the SALE!
When you follow the process the way well-to-do guys like it, you create a fail-safe way for creating loyal, raving fans that are happy to KEEP GIVING you money.
When you don’t do things the way he likes it, he doesn’t stick around.
There are some keys areas that you should be following when marketing to financially successful boys. I cover these in excruciating detail in my program.
Here is a technique that I teach in my program that you can start using RIGHT NOW to make more money….
Hear what Jade reported once she used the Rate Decoy…
So I’ll be eagerly anticipating the rest of your advice. Thank you soooo much! You definitely have my respect & not many can say that ”
- Jade
Imagine how it will feel waking up in a few weeks from now and having ten new messages in your inbox from charming, wealthy gentlemen wanting to book you for an entire evening. This doesn’t have to stay a pipe-dream. The opportunity to manifest the life you want is occurring right now.
I look forward to hearing your success story.
Take Care,
Erin
P.S. You have to admit that I probably have a counter-argument to virtually any excuse you might have
EXCUSE #1: “I don’t think I’ll be able to complete the program.”
Are you kidding me…of course you will!
I have taken tedious effort to map out the program in such a way that keeps you going and keeps you interested. The best part is you can go at your own pace.
This means you don’t have to worry about getting burned out or moving too slowly.
EXCUSE #2: “I’m not cut out to be a VIP.”
Says who?
I’m being honest when I say that I’ve seen every lady of the gambit (mature, super young, skinny, bbw, Black, White, Latina, Asian, tall, short) positioned as a VIP.
It’s not how you look, it’s how you… come across.
EXCUSE #3: “I can’t afford it today.”
Fair enough. I can understand.
However, I’ve found it to be most true that we really do end up finding the money for the things we truly want in life. Maybe you don’t feel as though you can invest in a program right now, but this isn’t an offer for a program.
This is an offer to invest in your future. The cost is a small investment you can make back with one single call from the right client.
